
Everything planned,
so that nothing
looked planned
San Onofre State Beach · San Clemente
Cameron wanted to ask Sabrina on the bluff above the water at San Onofre, where he and Sabrina surf. What that took was weeks of planning, and then, on the evening itself, a photographer in green clothes lying in the brush on the hill above the path — so that when she got there, there was nothing to notice.






Green, because
the bushes
are green
I went up the hill above the track well before they got there and stayed put. Green shirt, green trousers — not a costume, just the least visible things I own. From up there I could see the whole bend of the path, and from the path nobody could see me at all.
The distance is the point. A proposal photographed from close enough to be heard is a proposal somebody notices; from far enough that nobody looks twice, the only two people in it are the two who are supposed to be there.













Thirty seconds
that could not
be rehearsed
San Onofre · 28 August 2026









The photograph
is the last
part of it
Most of this happened before the day. Where she would come from and how. Which side of the slope he should stand on, so the light was on their faces and the ocean was behind them. How far away I could be and still hear nothing but the surf. What we would do if she arrived early, and what we would do if she arrived with company.
None of that is photography. All of it is the reason the photographs exist. What Cameron said afterwards was that I walked him through the whole process — which is the part a gallery cannot show you.
How I workStefano was fantastic. He walked us through the whole process and took amazing photos. Honestly too many good photos, we don’t know what to do with all of them.
Cameron · August 2026 · Flytographer












- Where
- San Onofre State Beach, San Clemente
- What
- A surprise proposal, and the engagement session that followed it down onto the sand
- Photography
- Stefano Casati
- Booked through
- Flytographer
Published with Cameron and Sabrina’s permission. If you are planning one of these, the planning is the part to book early — the photographing is an hour.
Planning
something like this?